Years ago, when I would read in gossip magazines how celebrities never read the bad press about themselves, I would think, “Oh, get over it. How bad could it be?”
Then I started writing books and having people writing reviews of my work, and, I finally understood.
The old adage may go, “Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never harm me.”
But as any writer knows, words can hurt.
Look, don’t think I’m all depressed because some people out there don’t like my books and have posted negative reviews on Amazon.com and Goodreads.
Here’s what frustrates me–the folks who have read my frugal-living books and then complained because the books didn’t tell them anything they didn’t already know from years of living frugally.
To which I say, the book and blog are Suddenly Frugal. Not Always Frugal. Or Lifelong Frugal.
I wrote Suddenly Frugal
and Toss, Keep, Sell! for people who were once spendthrifts and suddenly found themselves needing to live frugally. I didn’t write the book for people who are already disciples of Amy Dacyzyn, author of The Complete Tightwad Gazette
. Did I hope that my books would teach some already frugal folks some new tricks? Sure. Even my own mother, the quintessential Yankee, has picked up a few tips from me, her daughter.
But my real target audience for these books and this blog was–and continues to be–those who had never lived frugally in their lives and needed help getting started.
Just like someone who was raised Christian and converted to Judaism (as people in my own family did) wouldn’t buy a book called Always Jewish. They would probably lean more towards a book called Suddenly Jewish.
The idea is that someone finds themselves in a new situation and needs tools to help them navigate that new situation. That’s where Suddenly Frugal
comes in.
The same is true for Toss, Keep, Sell!–those folks who have been living frugally for a bit now and want to find ways to bring in more money when there’s nothing left to cut from their budget. Or folks who are recovering spendthrifts, with too much stuff from their shopping days, who are looking to declutter their homes and wouldn’t mind getting a few bucks in the process.
I appreciate the tens of thousands of people who have already bought my books–and I hope that the topic continues to remain relevant for years to come. I love what I do, I love what I write, and I just want to make sure that my words reach the right audience.